In our profound and long-standing Chinese culture, some words are easily misread or misused because of their similar shapes or meanings.
No, there is one word that often makes people "fall behind", and that is "flattery".
Looking at this word, have you ever wanted to pronounce it as "xiàn mèi"?
Haha, don't worry, let's uncover its true face together.
First, let's correct this common misreading.
"谄媚"的正确读音应该是"chǎn mèi",而不是"xiàn mèi"。
The original meaning of the word "flattery" is to use words to please and flatter others, and to put it bluntly, it is a sycophant!
And "flattering" means to please.
Therefore, the word "flattery" together refers to the use of sweet words to stammer and please others, often in order to achieve a certain goal or obtain a certain benefit.
Speaking of this "谄", it has a long history.
As early as ancient times, people began to use this word to describe those who were good at currying favor with the powerful in order to gain their own interests.
Although this kind of behavior is despised by honest people, it is not uncommon in real life.
Interestingly, the shape of the word "谄" and the word "filling" in the pie is quite similar, which has also led to many people misreading.
In addition, "flattery" and "flattery" are similar in meaning, which is easier to confuse. But that's okay, now that you know the correct answer, don't make a mistake next time!
Since we talk about "flattery", we have to mention those historical masters of patting.
Do you know who is the best person at making sycophants, is it Heshen, or is it some other historical figure?
In fact, there is no standard answer to this question, because there are so many "flattery" masters in every era.
With their incorruptible tongues, they can always seek the greatest benefits for themselves at critical moments.
Imagine how these masters used their "flattery" skills to navigate court battles with ease.
They read the words, figured out the intentions, and then used the most appropriate language to curry favor with the emperor or the magnates.
Of course, this kind of behavior often comes with risks and costs, after all, slapping a horse's leg on the horse's leg is counterproductive.
Having said all this, is the word "flattery" already deeply imprinted in your mind?
The next time you come across this word, don't hesitate!
Moreover, we must also learn to be wary of those who are too flattering and flattering us, after all, true friends will not easily use words to please you.
Finally, let's remember the correct pronunciation of the word "chǎn mèi", and always keep a clear head, don't be fooled by those sweet words!
In this world of temptation, it is very important to remain sober and sane.