An Lingrong's mother admitted that she beat her child because of vanity: the pain of education
In the midst of the uproar of society, a shocking piece of news has attracted widespread attention. An Lingrong's mother, a mother who has always been gentle and virtuous in the eyes of the public, admitted in front of the camera that she beat her child because of vanity. This confession not only shocked the public, but also made people deeply reflect on the true meaning of education and the current situation of family education.
It is understood that An Lingrong's mother was interviewed with tears in her eyes and her voice choked. She admitted that she has always hoped that her daughter can excel in her studies and become the center of attention. However, as her daughter grows up, she gradually discovers that her daughter is not gifted and her grades are mediocre. This psychological gap made her feel anxious, worried about her daughter's future, and even more worried about losing face in front of relatives and friends.
"I confess that I once hit a child out of vanity. An Lingrong's mother's voice was filled with deep self-blame and remorse, "At that time, I only wanted to let my child get ahead, but I ignored her feelings and growth. I was wrong, I was really wrong. ”
This frank confession is like a hammer slamming into people's hearts. It makes us wonder: in real life, are there also many parents who put pressure on their children because of vanity and ignore their children's growth needs?
As an educator, I know that Ahn Lingrong's mother's psychology is not unique. Many parents want their children to succeed academically, and even elevate this expectation to the level of family pride. This kind of excessive expectation often burdens children with a heavy psychological burden, and even leads to tension in family relationships.
However, the essence of education is not to pursue vanity and face, but to guide children to grow up healthily, explore their potential, and help them become quality and responsible people. Vanity-driven education will only make children lose themselves and fall into endless anxiety and inferiority.
As parents, we should always remind ourselves that vanity is the enemy of education. We need to pay attention to the inner needs of children, respect their personalities and interests, and give them enough love and support. Only in this way can children thrive in a relaxed and harmonious environment and shine their own light.
In addition, we should also recognize that a child's growth is a long and complex process. They need time to explore, to try, to fail. As parents, we should learn to be patient, accompany our children to grow together, and face the challenges of life together.
An Lingrong's mother's honesty sounded the alarm for us. Let's work together to abandon vanity and lead our children to a bright future with love and care. At the same time, we also hope that more parents can reflect on their own education methods and face their children's growth with a healthier and more positive attitude.
In this competitive and stressful society, let's work together to create a relaxed, harmonious and loving environment for children to grow up. Let's watch them thrive and shine of their own. Because every child is a unique gem, they deserve to be respected, understood, and loved.
Finally, I hope that all parents can learn from the story of An Lingrong's mother and guide their children to grow up with the right education methods. May all children grow up healthy and happy under the nourishment of love and care, and become the pillars of society.
Looking back on the story of An Lingrong's mother, we can't help but be moved by her honesty. Her experience has taught us the negative impact of vanity on education. At the same time, her story also reminds us that as parents and educators, we should always pay attention to the inner needs of children, respect their individuality and interests, and guide their growth with the right way of education.
In these times of change, let us work together to abandon the shackles of vanity and face the growth of children with a more open and inclusive mind. Let's work together to create a loving and caring environment for children to grow up in, so that they can move forward bravely and shine on the road of growth.
Let us remember the story of An Lingrong's mother, and let this honesty and repentance become the driving force for our reflection and progress. May we all be mentors and friends on the road of children's growth, accompany them through every stage, and write a better future for us together.