When a person first encounters love, his mood is always contradictory and complicated, both the joy of being appreciated and the fear of having love.
Under the influence of this tangled psychology, many people will show a posture of wanting to meet and refuse when facing their first love, so that they cannot show their emotions calmly in the love relationship, which is likely to make them rub shoulders with beautiful love.
Love is a wonderful and rare fate, it does not happen at any time, when a person misses a good love, he will feel pain and regret after he realizes it, which is a very regrettable thing.
In the movie "Heartbeat", the male protagonist announced that Les is a person who does not know how to cherish love, when the heroine Julie expressed his love to him, he did not face his heart due to the young boy's youth, gave Julie a loving response, but showed a tired look to Julie.
It wasn't until Julie sadly left that Bryce understood that he loved Julie deeply in his heart, but it was already difficult for him to save Julie's heart.
"Heartbeat" tells us: Don't wait until you lose your love to regret that you don't know how to cherish.
First, when love comes, you must know how to face your heart.
For people who have no experience in love, the sudden arrival of first love is likely to make him feel flustered, so that he himself cannot face his inner thoughts.
When Bryce first moved and became neighbors with Julie, Julie fell in love with Bryce at first sight, and she enthusiastically helped Bryce move the furniture, hoping to show goodwill to Bryce in this way.
But Bryce doesn't seem to understand what love is, and in the face of Julie's enthusiasm and care, he is very repulsive and disgusted.
Bryce and Julie are classmates, and on campus, Julie has repeatedly shown good feelings to Bryce, but Julie's enthusiasm every time is exchanged for Bryce's indifference.
In the end, Julie is disappointed in Bryce, she no longer expects to be able to come together with Blaise, and without Julie's "interference", Blaise now understands that he has fallen deeply in love with Julie.
In my opinion, the reason why Bryce initially disliked Julie was only because he was too young to let go of his face and could not face his heart.
Julie's inseparability to Bryce makes Bryce have no fear in this love and becomes unsure of love, until Bryce loses Julie, he regrets it.
If Bryce could put down his so-called face and know how to face his heart when he first met love, perhaps he would not feel sad about losing Julie.
Second, looking at the lover from a narrow perspective will make you prejudiced against the lover.
Julie's father is a painter, and when the father saw his daughter trapped in sorrow, he enlightened his daughter that the whole is greater than the sum of the parts, and as long as you can see the whole picture of things, you will not feel sad because of the loss of a love.
After Julie listened to her father's words, she seemed to understand, until she climbed the tall plane tree in front of her house, she looked down at the city, and found out how beautiful the ordinary street that was originally in her eyes was.
So Julie found that Bryce was actually not so good, and she could finally let go of this relationship.
But Bryce obviously does not understand the truth that "the whole is greater than the sum of the parts", he thinks that Julie's enthusiasm is an annoying behavior, and when he sees the messy yard of Julie's house, he will think that Julie's family does not pay attention to hygiene.
It wasn't until Julie left Bryce that Bryce tried to get to know Julie, and he finally understood that Julie's enthusiasm was a sign of her sincerity in her love, and the reason why Julie's yard was very messy was because Julie's father was busy taking care of sick relatives, so he had no time to take care of it.
It is precisely because Bryce has always been prejudiced against Julie that he can't see Julie's good and almost miss this relationship.
Third, when love comes, don't wait until you lose it before you know how to pursue it.
In love relationships, we often see such a phenomenon, usually the person who is nagging around us, once he disappears, we will feel that his "nagging" is a cute performance, and then the gap to the other party's precious.
Bryce regrets losing Julie's love, and he tries to ease his relationship with Julie, but at this time, Julie is very cold to Bryce.
Bryce finally decides to change himself after much pain, first apologizing to Julie, and then helping Julie plant a plane tree in front of julie's house after the plane tree in front of julie's house was cut down.
Bryce's actions finally impressed Julie, and the two of them eventually came together happily.
When love comes, we must know how to cherish, do not wait until after the loss, before regretting it, Bryce is lucky, but many people have no possibility of regaining happiness after losing love.
In the movie "Heartbeat", Bryce's love experience tells us not to wait until we lose love before we know how to cherish it.
Love is a rare fate, once missed, it is very rare to want to save, when love comes, you must know how to face your inner thoughts, bravely accept this love.
In the process of getting along with lovers, you can't be prejudiced, but also know how to see the advantages of each other, only in this way can you know how to cherish your lovers.
People who know how to cherish love will not be sad and remorseful because of missed feelings, resulting in regrets in their own lives.
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